It’s never about not being good enough for someone else, even if they make you feel that that’s the case. Your friends in relationships are not better than you. Your ex – boyfriend’s new girlfriend is not better than you. It truly is about FIT. The most bizarre unconventional people find partners. It’s not just the women that fit some specific mold that end up with partners. If someone decided that they didn’t want to continue dating you it’s important that you focus on the fact that by virtue of that decision, THAT person was not the correct FIT for you!